I’m a GenX herbalist, death doula, author, grief activist, and comic book nerd navigating midlife. Here, I spill it all—grief, grit, ghosts, and growth—with zero filter and plenty of fire.

A story about terminal cancer, death & dying, grief, faith, & healing between a daughter & father.

Writer. Grief whisperer. Midlife rom-com alchemist. Hello, I’m Andi Blake—author of darkly funny, emotionally rich fiction where ghosts linger, grief has punchlines, and love might show up wearing Converse and a few regrets. I write about death, healing, awkward kisses, and the weird, beautiful mess of being human. This is where I share snippets of my work-in-progress novels, behind-the-scenes glimpses into my haunted heart, and updates on my journey back to publishing after one hell of a plot twist. If you like stories that straddle laughter and loss, sarcasm and softness, welcome to my corner of the afterlife. You’ll also find me over at Midlife Uncensored, where I unpack the sacred and the ridiculous, one soul-snarky post at a time.